Introduction: The Day I Got Disappointed
Disappointment is a feeling that we all experience at one point in our lives. It is a feeling of sadness, anger, and regret. Disappointment can be caused by many things such as the failure of a relationship or the loss of something important to us.
When we feel disappointed, it can be difficult to deal with and we might not know how to get over it. I’m going to talk about my personal experiences with disappointment and how I got through them.
My Experience when I Got Disappointed
It is winter when the final selection result of the Air Port Authority of India (AAI) came out and my name was not on the selection list. My two friends succeeded but I was rejected. However, I was already in a government job. But it is the psyche of a competitor like us who always feels disappointed if he does not get selected.
That was the worst day of my life when I got disappointed. We always compare our success and failure and feel good or bad from our friend circle. Our behavioral perception is exhibited in our surroundings as per the achievement and failure of an individual.
What Disappointment Means to Me
Everyone has dealt with disappointment at some point in their life. It is a natural part of life that we can't avoid. It is important to know how to deal with it and what it means to you. I personally feel that Almighty Allah has done well to me every time in my life.
After a long time, that means after three years I heard that my friends transferred from the original posting. Also came to know that it is a part of the condition that this kind of Engineers faces transfer after every three years. At that time I felt very much happy that I have not got selected. Because now I have achieved a better position in my service in case of promotion and I have a fixed city that is very beautiful.
It means we have to take every failure or loss in a positive sense and we need to look ahead to correct our past mistakes and weaknesses.
How Disappointment Affects Us
Disappointment is a feeling that everyone experiences at some point in their lives. It's an emotion that can cause us to feel sad, disappointed, and sometimes even hopeless.
There are many ways to deal with disappointment. One way is to take a step back and assess the situation from a different perspective. This can help you see things in a more positive light or realize that you were too critical of the situation. Another way is to think about what caused your disappointment and how it could have been different if you had been more prepared for it or if something else had happened instead.
How to Deal With Disappointment
After the disappointment, there is hope that turns another moment into happiness. This is the way of life in which we are controlled by the creator. So we need to go ahead in a positive way with optimism that something good will be there ahead in my life. This is the best way to deal with ourselves and our emotions.
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